So, you think the simple life might be for you? Tired of feeling like you live life on a treadmill? Want to have more experiences and less things? Think that you can’t because you have a family? Think again…
Meet the “Nomadic Family”! They left their “normal” lives behind …
http://thenomadicfamily.com/2011/11/the-ying-yang-of-living-without
There was a recent article in the New York Times that reminded me ever so much of Epicurus and his premise that material wealth does not bring happiness. A nice little reminder that more things will not guarantee a happy life.
http://www.nytimes.com/2012/07/08/opinion/sunday/dont-indulge-be-happy.html?_r=1&pagewanted=all
Ah… the ingredients of happiness according to Epicurus:
1. Friends (companions)
2. Freedom (financially independent – not imprisoned by unbearable bosses)
3. Analyzed life (time to think, reflect, leave the distractions of the world)
It sounds like an easy enough recipe to follow, but I’m increasingly convinced that our modern lives are making it almost impossible for a person to achieve the happiness Epicurus spoke of. Why? Well, to begin with, lets look simply at freedom. Epicurus suggests that we need to free ourselves from desire. It sounds like an attainable goal, and yet, I find that it is a daily struggle because while I don’t need to be rich, I do want to be secure.
My DESIRE for security drives many of my decisions and keeps me imprisoned. Why do I need a home in this neighborhood and not that neighborhood? Security. Why do I need this car and not that car? Security. Why do I need to work fulltime instead of parttime? Security. Yes, the security that comes from living in a “good” neighborhood, the security that comes from owning a “reliable” car, the security that comes from having a job that provides health insurance and a retirement plan. I give up some of my freedom for the promise of security.
So, perhaps, at least from my perspective, it seems we need to add one more element to the list. Maybe if we could fulfill our need for:
1. Friends (companions)
2. Freedom (financially independent – not imprisoned by unbearable bosses)
3. Analyzed life (time to think, reflect, leave the distractions of the world)
4. Security
maybe then we could find the happiness that alludes us.
An interesting look at the culture of consumption in the United States:
Upon reflection, Marietta McCarty states:
“We overlook ‘ordinary’ joys completely when we overextend our reach into the world of things.”
This is one of the basic tenets of Epicurean philosophy. In order to find the freedom he speaks of, we must stop letting ourselves become slaves to desire.
All you want is
What you can’t have
And if you just look around man
You see you got magic
So just sit back relax
Enjoy it while you still have it
Don’t look back on life man and only see tragic
Because you could be better than that
Don’t let it get the better of you
What could be better than now
Life’s not about what’s better than
You can be better than that
Don’t let it get the better of you
What could be better than now
Life’s not about what’s better
All the time while you’re looking away
There are things you can do man
There’s things you can say
To the the ones you’re with
With whom you’re spending your today
Get your gaze off tomorrow
And let come what may
Because you could be better than that
Don’t let it get the better of you
What could be better than now
Life’s not about what’s better than
You can be better than that
Don’t let it get the better of you
What could be better than now
Life’s not about what’s better
All I know is sometimes things can be hard
But you should know by now
They come and they go
So why, oh why
Do I look to the other side
‘Cause I know the grass is greener but
Just as hard to mow
Life’s not about what’s better than.
All you want is
What you can’t have
And if you just look around man
You see you got magic
So just sit back relax
Enjoy it while you still have it
Don’t look back on life man and only see tragic
Because
You could be better than that
Don’t let it get the better of you
What could be better than now
Life’s not about what’s better than
You can be better than that
Don’t let it get the better of you
What could be better than now
Life’s not about what’s better than
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In my search to understand Epicurean Philosophy, I have stumbled across some very good videos. I thought I would share them with you here. This is the first installment:
http://video.google.com/googleplayer.swf?docid=-3535764476733084568&hl=en&fs=true
